If my aunt's facing leukemia, death, and an extremely physically painful existence can find a way of being happy by simply having her nephew visit, I have no excuse of not finding a way to be happy in almost any situation. Don't worry, be happy.
Serena's masseuse doesn't do marketing. Purely word of mouth. She has clients that she massages for 8 hours at a time (high-ticket). The best kind of businesses are ones where quality is so good that people don't mind paying a lot for (in both time and finance).
Japan's culture makes the people be very methodical. This achieves extraordinary results, like amazing food everywhere you go. This also makes for very slow taxis and slow problem-solving / adaptability that are infinitely frustrating. For amazing long-term results, the slow/methodical way is the way to go (though you should aim to go as fast as possible). When speed is needed, you should refrain from doing things this way.